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The Ethics of Child Stardom, Part 1:
Rewarding Irresponsible Conduct
by Jack Marshall
The continuing exploitation of child actors, which over-burdens them with adult expectations and responsibilities while still children and simultaneously freezes them in emotional immaturity as they approach adulthood, is predominantly the fault of their parents. But our celebrity obsessed culture now provides a deadly assist.
Some parents manage to allow their offspring's talents to blossom without using them as meal tickets and turning them into attention-crazed social misfits, but far too few. Why does having an adorable child who can sing, dance, or cry on cue turn parents into child-labor scofflaws and obsessed task masters who see only dollar signs when they look at their kids? Because an ethically-stunted society sends a clear and toxic message: the duty of the parent of a talented child performer is to make that child a star, no matter what it takes. Raising the child to be emotionally secure, able to form stable relationships, well-educated, sensitive to the feelings of others---well, heck, anyone's kid can achieve those things: what's the accomplishment in that? But raising a child who can earn a couple million a year, fill a concert hall or star in "High School Musical 8"---now that's parenting! The crime would be letting that God-given talent "go to waste," you see.
So Britney Spears' mother, as one daughter hovers on the edge of insanity and emotional collapse and another becomes the ... more
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